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“He’s seen more life than you” – Simi advises a lady dating an older man

A young lady of twenty-two years asked Simi for relationship advise, regarding a thirty-year-old man she’s currently dating, and happens to have a kid also. In response to the lady’s inquisition on how to tell her parents about her ongoing relationship, Simi wrote; ”Depends on what both of you want out of the relationship. If …

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‘He is having surgery’ Chatunga Mugabe Hospitalized Amid Legal Troubles

Bellamine Chatunga Mugabe’s lawyer has revealed that he is hospitalized and having surgery, which is why he skipped court. A legal warrant has been released for Chatunga Bellamine Mugabe, the 27-year-old son of the late Zimbabwean leader Robert Mugabe, after he did not attend a court hearing on Tuesday. Magistrate Miss Vavariro Gavi issued the […]

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My daughter is struggling to cope since my girlfriend ghosted me

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend ghosted me and now I’m dealing with the collateral damage from my daughter, who doesn’t understand why we are back to spending our weekends alone.

I’m a guy of 39 who works from home. My daughter is six and she’s the light of my life. She struggles with learning difficulties and she’s a bit full-on, but she’s a bundle of fun.

Last year, I met a wonderful 36 year-old woman who has a son at my daughter’s school. He’s five and he has ADHD. 

We started dating and having sex. I couldn’t have been happier.

I’m widowed so it was lovely for my little girl to have a mother figure around. Weekends were trips to the seaside or picnics in the park. It was great.

My girlfriend then stopped replying to my texts. It went on for a few days and when I confronted her at the school gate she got very upset.

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Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.

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I eventually got her to open up and apparently she’s struggling with a gambling problem and couldn’t cope with a relationship.

I told her she should have talked to me but she insisted we were over. She’s blocked my number now and avoids me.

I’m so upset and my daughter thinks she’s caused the issue.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your ex’s behaviour was harsh but it also suggests that she feels incredibly ashamed and isn’t in a place to open up properly or maintain a romantic relationship.

I’m afraid she’s made it clear she doesn’t want to continue the relationship and for all your sakes you would be better off accepting her wishes. 

There are plenty of resources and support for people with gambling and if she does start 

to talk to you again perhaps you might feel comfortable directing her towards them. My support pack for gambling has plenty of information. 

Gingerbread (gingerbread.org.uk, 0808 802 0925) for single parents will help you meet other single parents.

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I can’t move on from my toxic ex even though he’s bad for me

DEAR DEIDRE: I KNEW I shouldn’t have got together with my childhood ex as he’s a complete womaniser.

I’m a divorced woman of 36 and I’ve not had the best track history of dating.

I went to a school reunion and met a guy I went out with when I was 17. He cheated on me back then. He’s 37 now.

He’s never moved away from our home town and neither have I. We were flirting and he said he was separated and he’d like to take me out some time.

I said, “No way. Why would I want to go out with somebody who treated me badly?” He said he’d changed and he wanted to prove himself to me.

We started dating and I then found out he’d been seeing me and still sleeping with his ex-wife as well as somebody else. I ended it.

Since then, I find myself missing him terribly. We aren’t dating now but meet up for sex sometimes. I don’t think I can move on.

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team

Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.

Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page or email us at:

deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk

DEIDRE SAYS: You can and you must, for your own integrity and self-worth. Some people won’t ever be monogamous – which is what you crave – he’s not the one for you.

Tell him that casual sex isn’t your style and you aren’t going to allow yourself to get into this situation again.

You deserve better so wait until you really know somebody well before letting them into your life. You’ll be glad you did.

My support pack called Finding The Right Partner For You explains more.

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We Are All From Borno

By Zayd Ibn Isah The city of Maiduguri recently came under attack—not by insurgents, bandits, or anything of the sort, but by something much worse—the relentless force of nature. A devastating flood swept through the beautiful city, claiming lives and destroying property. While the word “attack” typically conjures images of Boko Haram’s decade-long reign of […]

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Chromebook acting strange? Try Google’s new ChromeOS ‘Sanitize’ tool – a lighter, friendlier solution than the full-on ‘Powerwash’ feature

Man uses download manager on laptop
Google has introduced a new “Sanitize” feature to its Chromebook operating system. The feature is part of ChromeOS 128, the latest version of Google’s operating system that rolled out earlier this month, and it’s a sort of gentler alternative to the existing “Powerwash” capability. Powerwash works similarly to a factory reset on other devices. It […]

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Speaker Johnson sets House vote on government funding bill after a one-week postponement

Speaker Johnson sets House vote on government funding bill after a one-week postponement
WASHINGTON — House Speaker Mike Johnson will move forward with a stopgap budget bill that would prevent a partial government shutdown when the new fiscal year begins Oct. 1, despite the headwinds that prompted him to do so pull the bill from consideration of last week. The bill includes a requirement that people who register […]

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